По мнению психологов, часто причино

По мнению психологов, часто причиной конфликтов между родителями и детьми является "неустойчивость родительского восприятия". Как это понимать? Естественно, что статус подростка в семье и обществе не устоялся. Он и не взрослый, но уже не ребенок. Недостатки в этом возрасте многочисленны: несобранность, неусидчивость, нецелеустремленность, несдержанность и др. Внешний облик соответствует этим качествам. Вообще, подросток непривлекателен. Вместе с тем, ведет себя иногда как взрослый, то есть критикует, требует уважения. Но иногда он, как ребенок, — все забывает, разбрасывает вещи и т. д.

В результате положительные качества недооцениваются, зато выступают несовершенства. Особенно если в семье есть младший ребенок — послушный и старательный.
Необходимо, чтобы родители постарались осознать свои противоречивые чувства. Попытались гасить в себе недовольство и раздражение. Объективно оценили достоинства и недостатки подростка. Сбалансировали систему обязанностей и прав.

Results (English) 1:

According to psychologists, often the cause of conflicts between parents and children is "parental perception of instability". How to understand this? Of course, that the status of the adolescent in the family and society is not well established. He was not an adult, but no longer a child. Deficiencies in this age are numerous: nesobrannost′, restlessness, neceleustremlennost′, incontinence, etc. Appearance match these qualities. In General, weak teen. However, behaves sometimes like an adult, that is, criticize, demands respect. But sometimes he, as a kid, all oblivious scatters things etc.As a result of the positive qualities of undervalued, but the Act of imperfection. Especially if a family has a younger child is obedient and diligent.It is imperative that parents have tried to understand their conflicting emotions. Tried to extinguish itself in dissatisfaction and irritation. Objectively evaluated the pros and cons of teen. Balanced system of obligations and rights.

Results (English) 2:

According to psychologists, is often the cause of conflicts between parents and children is the "parental perception of instability." What does it mean? Naturally, the status of the teenager in the family and society could not resist. It is not an adult, but no longer a child. Disadvantages of this age are numerous: nesobrannost, restlessness, infirm of purpose, incontinence and others. The appearance corresponds to these qualities. Generally, the teenager unattractive. However, sometimes it behaves like an adult, that is criticized, demands respect. But sometimes it is like a child - everyone forgets, throws things, etc. D. As a result of the positive qualities are underestimated, but favor imperfection. Especially if a family has a younger child - obedient and studious. It is essential that the parents have tried to understand their mixed feelings. They tried to extinguish a resentment and irritation. Objectively evaluate the merits and demerits of a teenager. Balanced system of rights and duties.

Results (English) 3:

according to psychologists, often a source of conflict between parents and children is the "parental perceptions of volatility. what's that supposed to mean? of course, the status of adolescents in the family and society has become well established.he's not an adult either, but it's not a child. the shortcomings of this age are numerous: i'm clumsy, неусидчивость, нецелеустремленность, intemperance, and others. the external shape is consistent with these characteristics. actually,teenager unattractive. however, behaves sometimes like an adult, there is criticism, demands respect. but sometimes he is like a child, everyone forgets, throwing things and so on. d

.as a result of the positive qualities of underestimated, but it is imperfect. especially if the family's youngest child is obedient and diligent "is necessary.parents have to understand his conflicting feelings. try to put out in frustration and irritation. objectively the advantages and disadvantages of a teenager.have balanced system of responsibilities and rights.